Searches for terms like “destination wedding outfit ideas” and “what to wear to a beach wedding” have surged in the UK in recent months, a clear sign that more Brits are attending weddings abroad and need help decoding the dress code.
With 25% of UK couples now getting married overseas, Destify, a destination wedding expert, in collaboration with fashion expert Louisa Rogers, has stepped in with this helpful fashion guide to ensure guests can pack confidently and dress appropriately, from seaside ceremonies to sunset vows in the hills.
Warm Destination Weddings
1. Wear the right colours
At traditional weddings, wearing red or white is often discouraged. White is typically reserved for the bride, helping her remain the focal point. Meanwhile, red holds significant meaning in various cultures, it’s a bridal colour in Chinese and Hindu traditions, symbolising luck, happiness, and prosperity. If you’re attending a destination wedding, there’s likely a specific theme, as these events are usually meticulously planned. Respecting the dress code is key. In warm climates, embrace light, colourful outfits that reflect the vibrant surroundings. Dark colours not only absorb heat but can also make you stand out in an unintended way. If you prefer a more subtle look, pastels are a great alternative, they’re elegant without being too bold.
2. Choose the right fabrics
Another major faux pas is choosing the wrong fabric. In hot climates, the right material is crucial for comfort. Heavy, non-breathable fabrics can lead to awkward sweat marks, especially around the armpits and back. Opt for lightweight, breathable fabrics like linen or chiffon, which allow movement and help keep you cool, especially important for outdoor ceremonies. The aim is to feel both comfortable and polished.
3. Find the right balance of formality
Dressing too casually is another mistake to avoid. Warm-weather clothing tends to be more relaxed, but a wedding, regardless of location, is still a formal event. Avoid outfits that are overly revealing, such as those with too much cleavage, or arriving in a graphic t-shirt and casual shorts. Aim for attire that is both comfortable and refined, ensuring you’re appropriately dressed for the occasion.
4. From head to toes
Footwear can be tricky too. High heels might not be practical on sandy beaches or uneven ground, but that doesn’t mean you should turn up in flip-flops or Birkenstocks. Instead, go for stylish flats, wedges, or sandals that still look elegant. If you opt for open-toed shoes, make sure your feet are well-groomed, a quick pedicure or neatly trimmed nails can make all the difference.
Lastly, always have a backup plan. Stains and snags happen, and since you likely won’t be able to pop home for a wardrobe change, a stain remover pen can be a lifesaver. Choose travel-friendly fabrics that don’t crease easily, as you may not have access to an iron. And don’t forget the essentials like a hat, sunglasses, and SPF, you won’t want to be squinting in every photo or turning beetroot-red in the sun.
Louisa Rogers, fashion expert, adds: “Heat and haute don’t have to clash! The key is choosing breathable natural fabrics that work with the body, not against it. Fabrics like linen, cotton voile, and bamboo blends offer structure without the sweat (and make sure they are 100% natural as opposed to blends which are sold with names like ‘cotton-rich’ or ‘silk-feel’. Opt for loose tailoring—think wide-leg trousers, midi dresses with movement, and blouses with fluted statement sleeves. Colour-wise, keep it light and bright to reflect sunlight (as long as you stay in line with the colour scheme or dress code, of course!) Accessories can be a helpful tool in keeping cool: a raffia hat, statement sunglasses, and lots of metal jewellery can help to keep skin cool.”
Cold Destination Weddings
1. Respect the colour palette
For weddings in colder locations, the approach is almost the complete opposite. One major faux pas is ignoring the winter colour palette. While bright colours can look out of place, earthy tones like sage, navy, and deep burgundy suit the season beautifully. You can still be creative by mixing and layering hues to create a stylish look that complements the setting.
2. Don’t forget to layer up
Fabric choice is just as important in colder weather. The last thing you want is to spend the night shivering rather than celebrating. Opt for thicker materials and layer cleverly. If you love the idea of a short-sleeved dress, add elegant accessories like gloves or a chic shawl to stay warm. Be thoughtful when choosing outerwear – busy patterns or bold colours can distract from your look. A long wool coat in a neutral shade is a classy, practical option that keeps you warm and polished.
3. Stay Classy
Another common mistake is prioritising warmth over elegance. Oversized jumpers may be cosy but can appear too casual. Instead, go for structured pieces like a fitted turtleneck or a well-tailored dress with thermal layers underneath. Strike a balance between staying warm and looking put-together. If your outfit is on the simpler side, elevate it with polished makeup or carefully chosen accessories. Play with different textures to add depth and interest.
4. Hide your toes
When it comes to shoes, warmth is key. Open-toed shoes are best avoided, so there’s no need for a pedicure this time. Heeled boots can be both stylish and practical. For men, smart leather shoes are ideal. Whatever footwear you choose, make sure it’s comfortable enough for dancing and standing for extended periods.
Finally, prepare for unpredictable weather. Bring a stylish waterproof layer or a discreet umbrella to shield your hair and makeup from rain or snow. You’ll be glad you did when you’re still looking flawless in the wedding photos.
Rogers explains: “Winter weddings are a fantastic time to play around with layering. Think about your textures: velvet, satin, mohair or even a touch of faux fur can look and feel decadent. The trick is to build in modular layers that move seamlessly from the ceremony to the dance floor. A tailored wool coat (there are so many vintage ones online that could be rehomed) or cape worn over a floor-length dress looks polished and provides practical warmth. Footwear is another opportunity. For example, closed-toe heels or stiletto ankle boots can look chic and keep you from freezing. Don’t shy away from jewel tones or metallics either; they pop beautifully against a wintry backdrop.”
Overall, the expert concludes: “Start with the setting and work the styling out from there. Is it beachy, rustic, urban luxe? Is there a dress code or colour scheme that has been mentioned? Let that information then guide your colour palette, fabric choice, and footwear. Always plan for layers; the weather can always surprise you. Versatility is your friend: bring a cover-up that doubles as a wrap, or a dress that works with flats and heels. And always, always test-drive your outfit. Walk, sit, maybe even dance in it before the big day so you don’t have any surprises and you’re free to enjoy the event.
I would say the main mistake people make when dressing for destination weddings is not about look, but function. Dressing for fantasy and not practicality can trip people up! People envision the ‘Pinterest-perfect’ look and forget they could be sweating through a silk suit or sinking their delicate stiletto heels into sand. And don’t be uncomfortable, even if you love the look of your outfit, because that stress will feel contagious! Your outfit should ideally say: ‘I’m in the mood to celebrate this couple and enjoy this moment!”
